I'm sorry, that sounded insensitive.

My point is that, you seem to remember every slight, and keep hold of it. All of this happened a lifetime ago. Literally. This was before I was born.

Things that happen to you can either be just something that happened once, or it can be the thing you base your life on. You seem to have chosen the latter, and that means they've fucked you twice.

So, really...let it go. It's okay. They can't get you. You're not a child any more.