If life is a mirror for us to learn from. You had a lesson to learn from that experience. Obviously you learned said lesson and came away from it a better person in the end. If you were some monster from HER ID; something you were there to reflect for her growth. You served your purpose; NOW QUIT BEATING YOURSELF UP FOR IT!!! a few of observations 1.its in the past leave it there, its where you were in your growth at that time. 2.you can't change it so learn the lesson and move on. 3. if you regret it do something about it. (if nothing else a "random act of senseless kindness")
If that had not happened at that time you may have never met us. I for one am much better a person for your friendship...I think Nyghtshayde would agree.
I am going to venture an opinion... please take it as that. As for your dream.... and possibly the lesson you may need to work on. Is learning to speak up for yourself. Particularly if you need resolution or closure. Perhaps if you had asked if there was a problem with you recent association that went south. The other people involved could have let you know sooner. It might have resolved the situation sooner, or even changed the outcome.
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Obviously you were there for a reason...
Date: 2009-03-27 01:26 am (UTC)If that had not happened at that time you may have never met us. I for one am much better a person for your friendship...I think Nyghtshayde would agree.
I am going to venture an opinion... please take it as that. As for your dream.... and possibly the lesson you may need to work on. Is learning to speak up for yourself. Particularly if you need resolution or closure. Perhaps if you had asked if there was a problem with you recent association that went south. The other people involved could have let you know sooner. It might have resolved the situation sooner, or even changed the outcome.
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